Contact Aboutattractive dominant SWM looking for a kinky girl to love. WHO I AM: I'm a successful, educated professional guy who is often ed charming, hilarious, Obegnbeck, amazing and a whole series of other adjectives I'm constantly amazed people associate with me. At the end of the day I'm but I have to sell myself here, and all banter aside I'm probably one of the most loyal, mentally stable, creative and capable guys who is actually single and looking to settle down. I'm also a lover of variety.
I live a life of seeming contradictions and have a rich life full of friends and family who accept and celebrate my somewhat eclectic tendencies.
I have already accomplished many of my dreams and while I'm always reaching higher at this point in my life the one thing that's most important to me next to my family is finding someone to share it all with. I have no and have never been married, so I come baggage free. As for details But beyond that I seek one very special girl to share adventures with Someone bright, witty, beautiful who is and smoke free, active, in decent shape and who is looking for something genuine on both a kink and vanilla level.
Ideally she'll enjoy the outdoors, be able to tolerate cheesy plays and maybe even enjoy. Ideal range is mid 20's to mid 30's, but while younger than that is fine Unfortunately, I often end up frustrated sexually in those relationships I don't need to suspend you from the ceiling wearing a Santa suit while 12 people watch or anything extreme, but someone willing to entertain a little spanking, maybe handcuffs, etc in the bedroom would be oh-so-nice.
I've tried a lot over the years, and I'm open to my partner's desires, but my expectations are fairly realistic. I'm cautiously optimistic that if Obernbec put myself cjat here like this I might finally meet that perfect balance of vanilla and kink to settle down with.
I'm not so much into organized sports, though I do enjoy going to baseball and hockey in person, and I have a keen appreciation for geek culture even if I don't LLocal like I'd fit in there, in my button up as well as a variety of other subcultures rockabilly,classical, etc. Nutshell - I enjoy everything from formal galas in one of my tux's to plowing through 2 feet of lnes in the woods, and music from BB King as well as Pennywise.
You like it? Chances are I do too.
KINK: There's very little I've not done and while there are a couple of things that stand out for me, the thing that excites me the most is exploring my partner's kinks, helping them discover their limits, expand them when they are ready and fulfill as many fantasies along the way as we can. I have a few hard limits but am generally open minded about everything else. Ultimately vanilla compatibility is WAY more important to me, but I definitely trend strongly Dominant in the bedroom, outside I'm excellent at the partnership thing.
I am probably more a BDSM in the bedroom guy than a true blue lifestyler - I don't mind going to various shows and events, particularly if I can learn something, but you're never ever going to see ij wandering folsom street fair in chaps or anything like that.
I'm more of a suit or outdoor gear kinda guy and I keep my freak firmly planted in the bedroom alone. MORE: You want to know more? I've already written a novel.
Well, then I suppose you have no Loxal but to message me, eh? I'm very nice and will respond to all messages. I'm very serious about finding someone special and for those who consider me, I will return the interest in kind and always let you know where I stand.
Obviously I would love a of you and am more than happy to share one in return. I'm looking for someone genuinely special here - is that you?
My main goal is to find a genuinely good person to have an amazing life with, inside and more importantly, outside of the bedroom.